what's love

Once when i was a little girl, we dreamed about marriage ...
the prince and princess happily ever after story.
in adulthood, the bubbles pops, marriage become so dissenting.
it might sound scary from the bad testimonials of others.
I would say now:

" I believe in marriage... beloved and to be in the love commitment of my lifetime"

what if I say:" love ain't about feelings"

" Love ain't about lust and desires"all of these would fade

Love is a verb

Love is an attitude

Love is a commitment

Love is giving

Agape is Sacrifing love

"I believe in love once again"

Don't become a stranger

we were once young and simple little child get to know each other
primary school, childhood, secondary, high school
we might feel that it's all different after all departure ...
we from good friends become like stranger after so long
is our friendship has become tweak and weak
is that any love language that we could share rather than " what are you doing now? when you graduate? where you work? how was everything? " "please take care"
I feel that shallowness of love and the unconcern to care.
as time flew, i hope we'd change, changed to be a better friend, a friend which we make new memories each and every moments no matter which stage of life we all are.
my dear friend "Don't become a stranger, okay ?"

it's easy to forget

how easy it is for me to forget

what I'd love to do about the passion

who I used to be could be much more happier

the commitment I've made

"how easy it is for us to forget the time we shared

how easy it is for us to forget how to love

how easy it is for us to forget how to smile =)

it's easy to forget, but it's even harder not to love "
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decision

life is all about choices. more choice. choices choices.
I was a person who always wonder what I want what I want
look upon others
but what I really needs
the attitude after I've made up my mind.
love the decision, believe the decision and trust in the decision
what I am doing about career now
真正影响人的一生不是当初的选择,而是自己对选择的态度 =)

freedom

i forgot about the principle
90 > 10
90 is the attitude how you control over the circumstances instead of let it taken over.
i was wrong the one who keep on striving for happiness and freedom. but the true freedom is to feel freedom by itslf. not to strive
追逐自由的人永远得不到自由。学会自在才会自由。

time

During we are still young, we would never realized the pace of time
we thought that we are still have plenty of time. Plenty of time to struggle, to fool around., to make mistake, to be rebellious, to be chasing all freedom we never had during childhood. we fall in love deeply, get a heart broken, until now know what's the pain hurts. We thought that is okay to make mistake, to be a little bit irresponsible.
It don't take a night for all of us to grow.
It don't take a day to know what's important in our life.
What important for me now is
My faith, spiritually.
My family
Me and others I am still learning
My time priority
My promise to myself in my life.

Neglected

I am a selfish person
Why is always me me me.
I try not to be
Wearing others shoes to be more considerate
Give me the eyes of seeing other people needs
Give the a pair of ears which listen to the insight of others
Give me a pair of hands which act on others
Give me a pair of legs to walk with them.
Give me a heart to love others.

Let me open my heart to reach others and to be reached.